The trees are trimmed, the lights are up, the mantels are dusted and corsets are being tightened. Cinnamon sticks are swirling around the cider while marshmallows take a float in a bath of hot cocoa. It’s time to get ready for another Christmas in Wilmington Delaware!
Whether you are into historic Du Pont family homes, Dicken’s inspired celebrations (hence, the corsets), going to Downtown Wilmington, visiting Santa Claus, going holiday shopping, or simply eating your body weight in frosting, Wilmington and New Castle, Delaware can handle all of your needs this holiday season. No time for winter blues this year! Let’s dive right into what the Brandywine Valley is best known for during Christmas. We may even surprise you with a few things you didn’t know were here.
Tour the Historic DuPont Estates
You can’t go to Wilmington, Delaware without touring at least one DuPont estate. The holiday season is the most beautiful time to see these mansions and gardens. They are all decked out to celebrate the holidays, both inside and out.
While Longwood Gardens is known for its outdoor light displays, Winterthur is all about the guided house tour. Nemours is perfect for families who want a self-guided experience, and the Hagley Museum and Library is best when kids just don’t have a lot of patience for old homes.
Nemours Estate
When you enter the Nemours Visitor Center, make sure you see what special holiday events and seasonal interpretations are happening that day. Several occur on the weekends, and some are for families. Watch the short video which explains who Alfred I. du Pont was and why Nemours is still important today.
Once you are finished touring the little museum in the Visitor Center, hop on the tram to go up to the Estate. While the grounds and gardens have gone dormant for the winter, and the fountains are turned off, you are still welcome to wander the paths and let the kids run. Better to get that excess energy out before you head into the house.
A.I. du Pont built the Nemours Estate out of love for a woman who just wanted to be friends (it’s true), but would become the family home with his third (and final) wife Jessie. They would spend the holiday season here surrounded by nieces and nephews, friends and loved ones. Now that the estate is open to the public, you can get a glimpse into their lavish lifestyle in the early 1900s and how they spent Christmas at Nemours.
During the holiday season, Jessie and her sisters would shop until they dropped, filling an entire bedroom with goodies. Christmas trees and décor litter the halls, fireplace mantles, and formal dining room. Best of all, there is a gingerbread recreation of the Nemours Estate in the kitchen. Don’t miss it while you go on a self guided tour of the home.
Docents are available throughout the property to answer any questions and help wayward children wander back to their parents.
Winterthur Museum, Garden, and Library
Yuletide at Winterthur is even more impressive than a visit to the property during the rest of the year. The trees decorated by the staff are my favorite part of this Henry Francis du Pont house tour. While you won’t be seeing all 175 rooms, you do get to see quite a bit of the mansion. A magical dollhouse, collection of antique Santas, stunning formal dining room display, and informal family living rooms give you a peek into holiday season life at Winterthur.
Keep in mind that you will need timed tickets to enter the mansion, and the tour will be at least an hour long, which can be hard for small children. You do get some very fun insider stories about the family as well as the origins of the decorations (particularly one room of wallpaper—I won’t spoil the surprise), and access to the decorative and fine arts collection (one of the most exquisite in North America).
After the tour, you can check out the special exhibition. Past exhibits include the costumes of Downton Abbey and Costuming THE CROWN, featuring attire from the Netflix series. You can also walk the grounds to take in the naturalist landscape that Henry DuPont loved. While his family over at Longwood and Nemours preferred more manicured gardens, Henry savored the natural beauty of a meadow or canyon of ferns.
Other seasonal interpretations and experiences not to miss include a live performance of A Christmas Carol performed by Gerald Charles Dickens, the great-great-grandson of Charles Dickens. The visitor center also offers Yuletide Jazz & Wine on select Wednesdays in December, where you can enjoy a nice glass of wine to go with live jazz music.
The Pavilion Restaurant is open if you would like to have dinner while you listen. You can also welcome the New Year at Winterthur with free hot cocoa, cookies, and crafts during the New Year’s Calling as part of the Yuletide tour.
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Hagley Museum and Library
The best way to get kids through the door of the Hagley is to tell them that something will get blown up while they are there. It’s true. My boys were tired of looking at old houses. I told them we were going to an old gunpowder mill and that we were going to watch them blow something up. Magically, my boys were all in.
During the holiday season, the Hagley has a gingerbread competition above the visitor center stairs. There is also cookie and ornament decorating. Santa makes an appearance on select dates.
Longwood Gardens
Longwood Gardens has always been my favorite Christmas tradition in the Brandywine Valley, particularly during the enchanting Longwood Christmas. The entire garden sparkles with twinkling lights, while the Conservatory bursts with vibrant flowers, creating a magical atmosphere. Throughout Longwood Christmas, towering Christmas trees fill the greenhouses and grounds, adding to the festive spirit.
My boys used to grumble about going, but now they’ve discovered the delights of the season. They can’t resist the endless hot cocoa, delicious mini donuts, and charming holiday trains to explore. And, of course, they look forward to the spectacular holiday show at the Open Air Theatre fountain that is part of the Longwood Christmas experience.
Read our complete guide to a Longwood Gardens Christmas here.
The Spirit of Christmas in New Castle, DE
Just south of Wilmington, DE, you will find the Dickens-esque town of New Castle, DE. A cuter town you will never see. One weekend every December, this town goes all out, embracing its Christmas Carol side, opening historic homes, and dressing up to welcome visitors.
Arrive by 10am so you have time to tour as many homes as possible before 4pm. There are about eight houses open for the holiday season, most of which aren’t accessible any other time of year. Many are guided home tours and some take longer than others.
Stop by the New Castle Visitor Center at The Arsenal if you have children with you and aren’t sure where to start. We opted for the Read House and Garden, which was self-guided, and the Dutch House, since it is a small home and a shorter tour.
Aside from home tours, which can be tough for little ones, there are several family-friendly performances throughout the day. The New Castle Court House Museum offers crafts and a chance to meet Tompte the Swedish Elf (he has presents!), a Christmas concert and carol singing at the New Castle United Methodist Church, and Hand Bell Concerts at the 1707 Meeting House.
Weather permitting, you can also catch performances of A Christmas Carol out on the Market Square. Don’t worry, if it rains, like the day we visited, there is a backup plan. The performance will be moved indoors to the Court House or other community building.
Check in at the Visitor Center for more information. This community bands together to make sure the Spirit of Christmas in New Castle is magical for everyone each year.
When you need a little sustenance, grab lunch at Jessop’s Tavern. This historic eatery is in high demand during the holiday season, and not just because it has the largest Belgium beer list in Delaware. Warm up with their homemade pot roast, but save room for the dessert crumble or cob. It pairs perfectly with a local cider or Belgium brew.
Santa in Wilmington, Delaware
Breakfast at the Delaware Museum of Natural History
Dinosaurs and Santa Claus might not seem like they go together, but when you step into the Delaware Museum of Natural History, you will find out that Santa Claus has a few best friends with big bones. There’s just something about this odd pair that meshes well together and takes the winter blues away!
This Santa breakfast is perfect for little ones and parents short on time. Expect to spend about 45 minutes to an hour enjoying pancakes and sausage, exploring the exhibits, and of course, saying hello to Santa Claus. Everyone gets a chance to take photos with the Big Man himself. Several craft stations are set up to bring home a little souvenir from your time at the museum, making it a delightful addition to your holiday events schedule.
Sunday Brunch with Santa Claus at Deerfield
If you are looking for a more filling and fancy brunch with Santa Claus, go to the Deerfield Golf Club. Santa Claus makes a special appearance on the three weekends leading up to Christmas at one of Wilmington’s top brunch spots. Kids 12 and under will get a little present, and everyone can get their photo taken with Santa Claus.
Naturally, this brunch is all about the food, so bring your appetite. Enjoy a donut wall, bacon, scrambled eggs, omelets, a soup and salad station, made-to-order eggs Benedict, loads of bread, Danishes and croissants, a BBQ station, a carving station, breakfast burritos, individual pizzas, and a massive seafood station.
Just save room for dessert! You don’t want to miss out on the local Woodside Farm Creamery ice cream station, waffles, cake, pies, and mini desserts.
Parents: there are $5 Bloody Marys and Mimosas for you too. Oh, and coffee of course. What is brunch without coffee?
Wilmington Christmas Nights
Nighttime is when a Wilmington Delaware Christmas really comes to life. The lights pop on and everyone comes out to play. After all, you can’t see Christmas lights when they are on during the day, right? It’s time to go on a little hunt for some light displays, great food, and ice skating in the Brandywine Valley.
The Wilmington & Western Railroad
What’s Christmas in Wilmington without holiday lights? The Wilmington & Western Railroad runs multiple train departures throughout the seasons, and trains go through neighborhoods and houses that are all decked out for the holiday season. Some departures will even have Santa Claus onboard. Buy a few snacks before you board at the train station concession stand to stay warm.
Neighbors know when the train is coming. We had a whole house filled with people for a pajama party run out to wave. There must have been 25 people on the deck saying hello to our train.
The ride lasts about 45 minutes and is just enough time for little ones to capture the magic of the season. Seats are assigned, so no one is jostled as you climb aboard. Do be on time though. The train waits for no one!
Dinner on North Market Street
Downtown Wilmington’s food scene has really grown in recent years, making North Market Street the place to be at night if you want great food and inventive cocktails. After some holiday shopping in Downtown Wilmington, book a table at Bardea, La Fia, or The Merchant Bar. Even our boys loved Bardea, which had the perfect balance between kid-pleasing entrees (there is pizza on the menu for picky eaters) and parent-pleasing cocktails and inventive cuisine.
Downtown Wilmington is all dressed up with lights and décor, ready to welcome you for the holiday season. If you want something quick after a day of holiday shopping, Downtown Wilmington’s DE.CO food hall concept offers a variety of spots for chefs to shine.
Connie’s Chicken and Waffles is always my favorite, but The Pop-Up: Federale Tacos wowed my carnitas-loving kids. Downtown Wilmington’s Spark’d is the perfect spot to grab a melting snowman cookie. They also have awesome hot cocoa, perfect for staying warm as you continue your adventures in Downtown Wilmington.
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Holiday Theater Productions
Nothing screams the holiday season like an amazing theater performance, especially when it’s tied to festive holiday events. At least that’s what we think. Bring together amazing actors, lights and props, and perhaps a few songs, and we get into the spirit of the season pretty darn fast. Wilmington, DE has an incredible arts and theater scene, and many venues host special holiday events that make this time of year even more magical.
A Christmas Carol at the Delaware Theatre Company
Every year the Delaware Theatre Company brings together seven actors, a few props, and puppets to tell the classic tale of Ebenezer Scrooge. Much like the Grinch, his heart grows three times by the end of this tale, but there are a few ghosts that have to get him there first.
Shows run throughout December up until December 30th, making this the perfect Christmas gift or pre-holiday performance (A plus: No need to go holiday shopping!). Check the ticket dates and prices here.
Delaware Children’s Theater
If you missed the 2019 production of Disney’s Frozen Jr., you aren’t alone. This show sold out its month-long run.
While every holiday brings fantastic performances, there is just something about Anna, Elsa, and Olaf that adds magic to the season. The Delaware Children’s Theater often hosts special holiday events, so be sure to keep an eye on their website for next year’s performance schedule. This isn’t your average community theater, that’s for sure!
The Annual Wilmington Jaycees Christmas Parade
What’s Christmas in Wilmington Delaware without a festive parade? The Annual Wilmington Jaycees Christmas Parade is the perfect way to kick off the holiday season. With local celebrities, marching bands, community floats, and even a visit from Santa Claus himself, this parade is a family favorite. Keep an eye out for Santa’s busy elves who will be collecting Christmas wish lists and letters from children for Santa to personally reply to. It’s a day filled with joy, music, and holiday spirit—perfect for creating lasting memories with your little ones!
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